Sexuality Labels - “So, Are You Bi or a Lesbian?”

It’s a question I’ve grown used to hearing since around mid-2020 when after years of identifying as bisexual, I declared to many of my friends something along the lines of: ‘Fuck men. Fuck my multiple heterosexual past relationships (in which I thought I’d met the love of my life in some arguably mediocre men with drug problems). I think I’m probably gay.’

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Opinion, WellbeingGuest User
Jaz's Life Philosophy

Your energy is precious. It belongs to you, and it's the only thing you've got to make your life go the way you want it to. Do not waste time investing in people who don't invest in you. This goes for family members, friends, lovers, work colleagues, everyone. It's not about being selfish, and it doesn't mean that you don't care for/love certain people.

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Everyday PeopleGuest User
Reframing How We Talk About Sex Work

Serial killer documentaries are oddly marketable. Netflix has of course capitalised on our grave fascination, as in December ‘The Ripper’ premiered on the platform. The four-part docuseries details the murders of 13 women from 1975 to 1980 at the hands of Peter Sutcliffe, better known by his alias, The Yorkshire Ripper.

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OpinionGuest User
The Story Behind Vaccine Scepticism in Minority Groups

With the arrival of the Coronavirus vaccine, we have seen a dramatic rise in scepticism surrounding the jab. Often, this scepticism has been aggressively dismissed as anti-vaxxing. People who have shown the slightest bit of concern as to what the vaccine contains and its potential long-term side-effects have been accused of being uneducated and, often, of halting the process to getting over the pandemic. This scepticism has not, however, been attempted to be understood.

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Reindeer - The Eyes Have It

This year though I went down a research rabbit hole when my mum told me that she had heard about Reindeers eyes changing colours and wanted to know why. I read about their feet, their antlers, their noisy tendons. I learnt about their subspecies variation, their eating habits, reintroductions in Scotland. There was a lot, but I’ve picked a couple of my favourites. So, strap in for some of the reasons why I think reindeer are awesome.

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New Year, Same Body

As a young woman who has battled an eating disorder, please don’t tell me to lose weight this month, this year, or ever. Please don’t tell me that I need to shred or burn off the Christmas food that I so heartily enjoyed over this festive season. Please don’t continue to allow diet culture to make me believe that my body needs to change with the New Year.

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OpinionGuest User
Paranormal Activity: I Saw A Ghost - But I Don’t Believe It

My parents laughed when I told them I’d seen somebody in my room. My mum told me I’d been reading too much Harry Potter—and I had to admit, it did look like a Dementor. But her breezy explanation never satisfied me. Although I was, at that age, obsessed with the boy wizard, I didn’t believe my enthusiasm for Hogwarts was enough to cause waking hallucinations.

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OpinionGuest User
It's About Abilities Not Disabilities

Disability is something that is still deeply misunderstood and feared. The narratives that surround it are either of victimisation or martyrdom. Disability needs to become normalised. For this to happen disability needs to become an everyday aspect of people’s working lives.

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WellbeingGuest User
Gender Fluidity 101

Genderfluidity, even among trans and non-binary spaces, is frequently misunderstood. “Sometimes a man, sometimes a woman” is a common phrasing and while that is one possibility, it is a gross oversimplification of an enormous breadth of experience.

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WellbeingGuest User
Worrying About Worrying

Worry ruins lives, it wastes time, energy, and resources. It gives nothing back and saps the joy out of life. So why do we do it? Worry doesn’t rob tomorrow of its sorrow, its saps today of its strength.

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OpinionGuest User
My Nerves and I - Neuropelveology a New Way to Treat Pelvic Pain

I’ve suffered from pelvic nerve pain for five years now, but it’s becoming increasingly difficult to pinpoint the feeling of being free from any form of mild discomfort or searing agony ever since I was a teenager. As a 25-year-old cisgender woman from Ireland, our healthcare services have had numerous scandals over the last few decades relating to treatments for people who identify as female.

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WellbeingGuest User
My First Dead Body 

As a police officer, I dealt with quite a few and knew I would. Some police forces arrange for their young bobbies to attend a post mortem supposedly to get them used to seeing a dead body. What a load of bollox! Most times the police’s involvement with a dead body is simply when someone, usually elderly, has died at home in their sleep.

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