Periods in South Asian Culture

Periods. Every woman in my contact book – perhaps every single one on the planet – despises them. They’re messy, painful, and agonising – some ordeals come with extra details uncalled for: from migraines to vomiting episodes.

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Not Mother's Day

I always felt a bit itchy about it, and Valentine’s Day for that matter. Tokens of love can sometimes feel cheap when you spend too much money on them! And that dear readers is why I’m not a very successful businesswoman!

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Is Counselling Only For the Rich?

With rent prices in cities increasing drastically in the last decade, millennials complaining that they are struggling to put any money on the side on a monthly basis, starting salaries being excruciatingly low, particularly in cities like London where the job market is extremely competitive, and few of us being offered private health insurance through work, it is hard to believe that many have the opportunity to spare £300 a month for counselling.

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Contracting an STI From a Trusted Partner Whilst Being Queer

My heart ached for the girl, more likely girls, who had ostensibly been caught in the same trap as I had. My partner had an innate knack for making me feel like a rare acquisition, but clearly, this was simply one more talent distributed with abandon. I felt angry for them by proxy, too. They would never, in all probability, have knowledge of the betrayal which ensnared them like flies in a spider’s web.

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Word To My Mother

Word To My Mother is a personal project I have been working on for the past 8-9 years where I process the loss of my mom and my life without her since then in the form of letters addresses to her personally. She passed away in 2004 when I was 14, just when we had started building our mother-daughter relationship.

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A Tale of Two Queers

How many times have we seen that conversation, or one like it? How many opinions are there on the word ‘queer,’ what, in the end, does it mean, and why’s it important? I will offer a different perspective from just saying one is right and the other wrong: the word ‘queer’ is really two words, two queers, the reductive, and the expansive.

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Fashion History Series: A Bridgerton-Inspired Style Guide

The Netflix hit Bridgerton, adapted from Julia Quinn’s bestselling novels, created by Chris Van Dusen, and produced by Shonda Rhimes, revealed to 82 million viewers the exquisite fashion of Regency Britain. While Bridgerton costume designer Ellen Mirojnick took influence from the colour palettes, fabrications, and silhouettes of the 1950s and 1960s to create the show’s 7,500 costume pieces, this article provides a whistle(down)stop tour of early 1800s fashion.

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Living with Anorexia

Most people have heard of eating disorders but unless you have suffered or have a loved one who has its unlikely you will understand the true damage that they often cause. They are like a tornado spinning uncontrollably through one’s life, destroying everything they touch. There isn’t a single part of my life which hasn’t been impacted by it in some way.

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How My Spirituality Defined Me

I wouldn’t say I chose the spiritual path, rather it chose me. In order for my eight-year-old self to survive the slings and arrows of outrageous friendships, I needed to adopt a philosophy that ensured my closest relationships left me feeling whole and happy.

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Living Away From Family

It had always been our dream to return to Israel, where we felt we belonged and where our children would have a better future. Telling my parents about our plans was possibly the hardest thing I have ever had to do, and the feeling of guilt remained with me for several years.

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How to Practise Gratitude

‘Why would you feel so negative, when you can look at the positives that he has achieved in his life?’ That is something I will firmly hold onto, but grief is never easy. I had to grieve on my own, away from my family, and away from university friends that I would see in the odd lecture or two, due to the online learning we were now faced with.

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Sobriety Without Accolades

Dry January just ended, and many people choose to completely ignore it in favour of a very wet one! I don't bloody blame you, life is challenging enough right now so yes, enjoy your tipples, why not. But for some it may have been a good opportunity to kick the habit. A starting point to make healthy changes.

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Losing Friends Along the Way

This so far, may sound perfect, but of course there’s also been those who have dropped off of my path. Some of these, I just talk to less, some I realised we were never really that close. We all have those friends in secondary school who were only friends with out of convenience, right?

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