Should You Power Through The Ick In A Long Term Relationship? No.

By now, you probably know what ‘The Ick’ is, and you have probably had plenty of experience with it in your own dating life. It has likely derailed a first date or ruined several months of getting to know someone new. But does The Ick ever occur in a healthy and committed relationship, or one that has been maintained through love over many years? And is it really the deathknell that social media claims it to be?

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OpinionJessica Blackwell
The Bullet and the Ballot: Is Violence Becoming The Dominant Language of Politics?

There’s not a lot to say in terms of reporting the events. This isn’t a voyeuristic true‑crime retelling. We all saw the video. If we didn’t see the video, we saw the photograph: hands reaching to close an already gaping wound. Within hours, the footage was everywhere, framed as another sign of “unprecedented times”. But America has been here before. Many times. 

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Opinion, PoliticsJessica Blackwell
Quiet-quitting: Why Are All The Twenty-Something's Leaving Their Corporate 9-5s?

Four months after working in recruitment, I had to admit three things: I did not like my job, I was burnt out, and I really, really, really wanted to quit. My colleagues were supportive; I did not want to leave. I wanted to brave it and make the most  of the opportunity in front of me. However, midway through the fifth month I had a complete mid-20s crash out and thought “no more!”.  

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Opinion, WellbeingJessica Blackwell
All My Friends Are Influencers... Why Personal Brands Are Part of Life Now

Not so long ago, the idea of having a “personal brand” felt… well, a bit embarrassing. It sounded like something for influencers or reality stars. Something reserved for people who wanted to be famous. Not something for regular people. Not something for me, or my friends, or the woman running a graphic design business from her kitchen table. But lately, I’ve noticed a shift. All my friends have personal brands now. Whether they’re calling it that or not.

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OpinionJessica Blackwell
Changing the Narrative: How Independent Midwifery is Revolutionising Modern Birth Experiences & Reducing Trauma in the Birth-space.

The current narrative around birth serves no one, with almost half of mainstream maternity units being rated inadequate or requiring improvements, with national headlines showcasing that approximately 30,000 women a year leave their experience with trauma or PTSD (Birth Trauma Enquiry 2024). It creates a mechanism of fear that has many just grateful they have themselves and a baby at the end of it. Yet, women deserve to know that there are practitioners who see pregnancy and birth as normal life events that require skilled support, not medical management, who are safe, trained and experienced in this space and want to provide choices and alternatives to the mainstream measure of childbearing.

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Disable Marriage Equality: Why Do I Lose My Benefits If I Marry an "Able-Bodied" Person?

If you get married, you and your partner are then viewed almost as one person, including that of your income. That will oftentimes then lead to your income and your benefits becoming  intertwined with your partners’. If you’re a disabled person and you marry an able-bodied person, one who works a qualifying significant income, the disabled person in the relationship will likely lose their benefits altogether. If you live outside of the UK, not only are you left with the strict laws on benefits causing issues, but also your access to healthcare, such as insurance. 

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My Name is Emily, I’m Disabled, and I’m A Benefit Claimant.

Anxious thoughts ran through my head as my laptop mouse hovered over the “proceed to check-out” button. There I was, panicking about buying a walking stick with my disability money… which is exactly what it’s for. But after reading the news, it’s no wonder I was so worried. All I could see and hear was the threats of benefit cuts from a government using disabled people, who are just trying to survive, as a scapegoat.

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Madeleine McCann Was Reported Missing in 2007. Why Are We Still Reporting On It?

In the eighteen years since this incident occurred, the case has rarely been out of the press. Despite the absolute tragedy that has occurred, it is hard to argue that the continued fascination on this case is uncommon. Similar cases of children going missing are not unheard of, but none have had a similar impact on the public and the media, especially in the UK. So, why is this the case?

And here-in, I feel, may be the issue and the answer.

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Anti-Misogyny Classes in Schools Are a Good Start - But Nowhere Near Enough: Why Governments Must Invest In More Than Just 'Emotional Education'

In March 2025, The Independent reported that schools across the UK will begin offering anti-misogyny classes in schools. Far from being an overreaction, the government proposed initiative is a necessary response to increasingly troubling cultural shifts taking place in schools and wider society.

And here-in, I feel, may be the issue and the answer.

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Periods Are F*cking Awful: A One Woman Rant About Why You Should Care about Her Luteal Phase (No, Seriously)

From periods, to pregnancy, to menopause, we have to get SO used to our bodies and our hormones knocking us sidewise. But there’s the crux: we do get used to it. There’s no light at the end of the tunnel here. This just feels like the cards you’re dealt if you’re born into a female body at birth. What’s the point in complaining about it? What are you gonna do? Not work every time your uterus decides to shed? If you’ve got generational wealth - maybe. Otherwise, not  an option. You crack on, and you shut up.

And here-in, I feel, may be the issue and the answer.

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Yay, I’m Getting Married … But, What The Hell Do I Do About The Estranged Parents?

Whilst a wedding is potentially a joyful occasion, for some it can become a real challenge - and I am not talking about the headache-inducing conversation with the printers; the months spent trying to source the perfect pair of bridal shoes or getting the recalcitrant photographer to respond to emails. I am talking about the painful business of those who are estranged from family members and whether to invite or not invite them.  

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